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《推开生活之门》作者：杨柳青 2017-02-07 10:36
20． 古代西方的国王亚历山大在战事紧急的时刻亲自上战场迎敌。其中一个大臣劝阻他说：“战场上危机四伏，您如何保证自己的安全？” 国王回答：“你帮我驱散假朋友，我来抵御公开的敌人。”
君子之交淡如水。友谊不只是相识，也不只是感情。友谊源于共同的兴趣、爱好和目标。只有彼此相互肯定，相互欣赏，才能亲密接触，才会成为朋友。与此同时，友谊还需要坦率，认真地对待朋友的批评，一如对待他们的赞美。
On Friendship
Anonymous
1. A friend should relate to a friend as to oneself, because a friend is another self.
2. A friend and I, although we have two separate bodies, are of one mind.
3. In easy times it is difficult to tell true friends from false ones. In hard times the nature of a friendship is revealed. In hard times a true friend draws closer, while a false one turns away.
4. Before making friends, we should first judge; after making friends, we should trust them.
5. Friendship and enmity are like sweet music and discord. The criterion for distinguishing them is harmony or the lack of it. Harmony is essential to friendship. With harmony, a small enterprise can grow big. With disagreement, a great enterprise can fall into decay.
君子之交淡如水。友谊不只是相识，也不只是感情。友谊源于共同的兴趣、爱好和目标。只有彼此相互肯定，相互欣赏，才能亲密接触，才会成为朋友。与此同时，友谊还需要坦率，认真地对待朋友的批评，一如对待他们的赞美。
On Friendship
Anonymous
1. A friend should relate to a friend as to oneself, because a friend is another self.
2. A friend and I, although we have two separate bodies, are of one mind.
3. In easy times it is difficult to tell true friends from false ones. In hard times the nature of a friendship is revealed. In hard times a true friend draws closer, while a false one turns away.
4. Before making friends, we should first judge; after making friends, we should trust them.
5. Friendship and enmity are like sweet music and discord. The criterion for distinguishing them is harmony or the lack of it. Harmony is essential to friendship. With harmony, a small enterprise can grow big. With disagreement, a great enterprise can fall into decay.